Thanks for your great comment. It raises a question that, no doubt, others have as well.

This universe is based on magnetism- positive and negative. We see this everywhere from atoms with electrons and neutrons to the yin and yang. People are the same- we are either masculine or feminine and attract the opposite. That is what we are – and we are meant to come together as we are social beings, as The Oracle said. As a matter of fact, we can’t not. We all meet someone who we have chemistry with and can’t help our attraction to them. We are meant to have these experiences.

You raise a strong point- it is very difficult to be with others, to share your love, when you are not comfortable being alone, as this indicates a lack of self-love. We need to love ourselves first and foremost. After all, the Law of Attraction says that we will not attract love if we do not have it ourselves. Not everyone realizes when they have been in dramatic relationships and when they do need some time on their own to grow their own self-love. Being able to identify this in yourself is what will help you raise yourself to the next level. When you do so you will increase your ability to attract a more loving and less dramatic relationship.

Spiritual masters vibrate at a different level that most. They are never alone because they have both self-love and always experience the love of their Source Energy. Actually, we all do. However, we don’t necessarily sense or know that we are always not-alone and in the presence of our Source, of love.

A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that they won’t find someone to love or to be loved by. This is quite common and it comes from a lack-based limiting belief. It causes them to feel that they are destined to be lonely.
The Oracle wants people to know that this is not the case, that everyone who wants a romantic relationship is meant to have it; that any limiting belief that negates your relationship is invalid. It is important for each of us to recognize that we are not excluded from love; if love hasn’t knocked on your door yet or recently and you wish it to, then increase your self-love and you will find yourself using the universal laws of attraction.
Ultimately the universal laws vibrate higher than our limiting beliefs. At some point our beliefs start to break down. As they become less activated in our energy universal laws become more dominant and we experience more love, relationship or what we desire in our lives. The trick is to break the beliefs down before they are active for too long in our lives.

Love & Light,
Kalyn