Are you frustrated by love and relationships? Are you having difficulty creating and maintaining a truly loving and nourishing relationship? Did you know that relationships are one of the quickest ways to grow and evolve on your Spiritual path?
You are Not Meant to Be Alone – Belonging and Relationships
We wish to speak to you about your relationships because more and more these will become vitally important to you. After all, a part of Who you truly are is about the people you love and that are close to you. It is, of course, natural, as you are social creatures. You require a place in the world where you belong, where you can be yourself and where you can develop yourself happily and comfortably. You require a place with people where you can be appreciated, valued and loved for Who you are, both the you with your gifts and the you with the weaknesses. You need a place where you can see yourself clearly, and seeing Who you are and what your persona is like can only truly happen in the presence of others.
So, here you are, a piece of Source Energy having an individualized experience. Even though you are individual, you are generally longing to belong and to be in a romantic relationship, where you are no longer a you, but rather a we.
Why is it that you come to be individual just to try to find a place you belong? You do this because you are here remembering who you are. Your desire to belong is large, as it drives your desire to remember who you are.
Belonging is not just about being in a relationship and feeling that you are belonging to with your mate. It is much more than that. It does not matter whether the relationship is romantic, familiar, friendship or work-ship, you seek to belong in all arenas of your life. You seek to be a part of something greater than just yourself because your longing is a way in which you seek to remind yourself that you are connected, that you are a part of all that is.
Belonging is a basic human need that you are driven by. It is more basic than your need for food, as you will see a hungry child seeks out its mother before food. You do the same. You truly seek out belonging, feeling loved and a part of. This is why people turn to different groups, or tribes. You turn to school groups, to internet groups, to common interest groups, religious or spiritual groups. You must. It satisfies a core need within you; it fulfills your desire to know who you are, because who you are is connected.
Your desire to belong, to be loved and a part of runs deep. It is so pronounced that you base most of your choices and actions on what you think will bring you a sense of belonging.
Use this to your advantage. Recognize that you are not meant to be alone, that you are meant to belong. Choose who and what you want to belong to. Choose how you wish to express who you are in choosing where you belong.
In class we will take this further and speak to you about the importance of choosing yourself first, even when you are seeking to belong, such that what you attract will then come from the highest energy you have available to you, ensuring the most loving relationship that will uphold the highest version of yourself. The Oracle
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