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By Kalyn, November 17, 2009

“You are not meant to be alone.” The Oracle

Are you frustrated by love and relationships? Are you having difficulty creating and maintaining a truly loving and nourishing relationship? Did you know that relationships are one of the quickest ways to grow and evolve on your Spiritual path?

You are Not Meant to Be Alone – Belonging and Relationships

We wish to speak to you about your relationships because more and more these will become vitally important to you. After all, a part of Who you truly are is about the people you love and that are close to you. It is, of course, natural, as you are social creatures. You require a place in the world where you belong, where you can be yourself and where you can develop yourself happily and comfortably. You require a place with people where you can be appreciated, valued and loved for Who you are, both the you with your gifts and the you with the weaknesses. You need a place where you can see yourself clearly, and seeing Who you are and what your persona is like can only truly happen in the presence of others.

So, here you are, a piece of Source Energy having an individualized experience. Even though you are individual, you are generally longing to belong and to be in a romantic relationship, where you are no longer a you, but rather a we.

Why is it that you come to be individual just to try to find a place you belong? You do this because you are here remembering who you are. Your desire to belong is large, as it drives your desire to remember who you are.

Belonging is not just about being in a relationship and feeling that you are belonging to with your mate. It is much more than that. It does not matter whether the relationship is romantic, familiar, friendship or work-ship, you seek to belong in all arenas of your life. You seek to be a part of something greater than just yourself because your longing is a way in which you seek to remind yourself that you are connected, that you are a part of all that is.

Belonging is a basic human need that you are driven by. It is more basic than your need for food, as you will see a hungry child seeks out its mother before food. You do the same. You truly seek out belonging, feeling loved and a part of. This is why people turn to different groups, or tribes. You turn to school groups, to internet groups, to common interest groups, religious or spiritual groups. You must. It satisfies a core need within you; it fulfills your desire to know who you are, because who you are is connected.

Your desire to belong, to be loved and a part of runs deep. It is so pronounced that you base most of your choices and actions on what you think will bring you a sense of belonging.

Use this to your advantage. Recognize that you are not meant to be alone, that you are meant to belong. Choose who and what you want to belong to. Choose how you wish to express who you are in choosing where you belong.

In class we will take this further and speak to you about the importance of choosing yourself first, even when you are seeking to belong, such that what you attract will then come from the highest energy you have available to you, ensuring the most loving relationship that will uphold the highest version of yourself. The Oracle

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By Kalyn, October 15, 2009

In this Gathering with the Oracle, the Oracle speaks on the true meaning of relationship and love. A audio download of the live Oracle Gathering is at the end.

Here is the message for you from the Oracle:

Love & Relationships

“We wish to speak to you about your relationships because more and more these will become vitally important to you. After all, a part of Who you truly are is about the people you love and that are close to you. It is, of course, natural, as you are social creatures. You require a place in the world where you belong, where you can be yourself and where you can develop yourself happily and comfortably. You require a place with people where you can be appreciated, valued and loved for Who you are, both the you with your gifts and the you with the weaknesses. You need a place where you can see yourself clearly, and seeing Who you are and what your persona is like can only truly happen in the presence of others.

It is only before others that you see the reaction, the reflection that you invoke in others and this is what helps you to see yourself. That in seeing others more deeply, more lovingly and more compassionately you see yourself with these same eyes.

We wish to speak to you about what relationships are because for so many of you the examples of relationship you grew up with were not in the flow. The relationships that society often speaks of, romantic relationships, family relationships and sometimes work and friendship relationships are out of flow.  A relationship out of flow lacks the light and love of your Source Energy. It is generally characterized by being riddled with fighting, frustration and a general feeling of being disregarded by another. This is most easily seen and most pronounced in romantic relationships.

Relationships are meant to be something different. They are intended, by your Source, to be a place in which you extend and receive love, compassion and the joy of taking a life journey together. They are meant to energetically bring you closer such that you share the energies of love, of dreams and of becoming Who you next are together. It is meant to give you another, who reflects your energy in so many ways, with whom you can find honesty, with whom you can be reminded of whom you wish to become and with whom you can be corrected by love.

Love is an energy that automatically holds the best version of you within it. Love is a higher vibrating energy that dares you to dream about your best you connecting and communing with the best version of those you love and hold dear to you. Love brings you the strength, the courage and the desire to be Who you truly are, if you are willing.

Your relationships will invoke this love. Romantic relationship invokes it the most within you. Your relationships will uphold you when you trip and they will remind you that being in your Golden Flow is what means the most to you. They will remind you that your dreams are here now, and that your dreams increase when you are in the presence of your relationships.” “The Oracle

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